The difference between being healed and unhealed is transformational and deeply spiritual. I know this because I’ve been on both sides. There was a time in my life when I was unhealed—angry, bitter, and unable to see the role I played in my own struggles. I blamed others, avoided accountability, and surrounded myself with toxic energy. But as painful as it was, the pruning process began. Slowly, God revealed the parts of me that needed healing, and though the journey hasn’t been easy, I give Him all the glory for where I am today.

The Characteristics of Being Unhealed

When we are unhealed, our actions and mindset reflect it:

• Lack of Accountability: We blame others for our circumstances instead of reflecting on our actions.

• Gossip and Negativity: Instead of building others up, we tear them down to make ourselves feel better.

• Resistance to Growth: Staying in our comfort zone feels safe but keeps us stagnant.

Unhealed people live with unresolved pain, often projecting it onto those around them. As Proverbs 27:6 says, “Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but deceitful are the kisses of an enemy.” It’s hard to face the truth, but it’s in facing it that healing begins.

The Freedom of Being Healed

A healed person lives differently. She takes responsibility for her actions, speaks life over others, and allows her work to speak for itself. A healed woman:

• Lifts Others Up: She encourages others to succeed, even while climbing her own mountains.

• Leads by Example: She doesn’t need to prove her worth to anyone—her actions reflect her heart.

• Seeks Validation from God: She no longer chases external approval but rests in her identity as God’s beloved.

The Healing Journey

Healing is not a one-time event; it’s a lifelong process that requires faith, surrender, and self-awareness. For me, healing began when I stopped running from the pain and started allowing God to prune me. Like a gardener tending to a tree, He removed the dead, unhealthy parts of my life so new growth could flourish.

Pruning can be painful, but it’s necessary. As John 15:2 reminds us, “Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit.” Embracing the pruning process leads us to the greatness God has called us to.

Steps to Begin Your Healing Journey

1. Acknowledge the Need for Healing: Be honest with yourself about what needs to change.

2. Seek God’s Guidance: Pray for wisdom, strength, and clarity. Lean on Him for direction.

3. Take Accountability: Accept your role in your challenges and commit to growth.

4. Surround Yourself with Support: Join communities like the Step Into Your Greatness group to connect with others on their healing journeys.

5. Practice Patience: Healing takes time. Celebrate small victories and trust the process.

The World is Waiting on Your Greatness

At the core of you is a soul that yearns for greatness. Don’t let the pain of the past hold you back. When you step into your healing, you transform your life and inspire others to do the same.

Join the Step Into Your Greatness Community today to begin or continue your healing journey. Engage in discussions, connect with like-minded individuals, and participate in experiences designed to help you grow. The world is waiting on your greatness—step in with grace and authenticity.

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References:

• Proverbs 27:6, New International Version.

• John 15:2, English Standard Version.

• Cloud, H., & Townsend, J. (1992). Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life. Zondervan.

• McGraw, D. (2020). The Gift of Forgiveness: Inspiring Stories from Those Who Have Overcome the Unforgivable. Pamela Dorman Books.

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